Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Hospital visits, rhinos, outreaches!

Hey everyone!

Accident Update

First off, I’ll give an update on our recovery from the recent rollover accident. (If you missed last post, read that one first). All of us are doing well. I am pretty much back to normal. I just have a couple bruises that are still healing. My neck and jaw feel just like they did before this recent accident. My jaw is still not fully better from the first accident, but this didn’t aggravate it any worse. I played football (soccer) two days after the rollover and basketball for an hour this past Saturday. I’ve gone running a few times too—so I feel just fine. Praise God.


Upon closer inspection of the Venture, it appears my body slammed into the passenger door when we landed upright again, because the door is noticeably bowed outward. But thankfully, I only have a bruise to show for that.


About half an hour before the rollover, I’d felt randomly like I should lock that door, so I’d locked it. Perhaps that was a nudge of the Holy Spirit that kept the door from flying open when I hit it evidently very hard minutes later. I guess we won’t ever know for sure, but I’m thankful I locked it!

Visiting Hospital Patients

Charlotte, the Canadian who fractured a vertebra in her back, is doing well too. On Tuesday last week, I drove Charlotte’s sons Jesse and Jake (along with the two other YFC long-termers Katie and Jenn) to visit Charlotte in the hospital in Gaborone. By that point, she was already unplugged from any machines or IV’s and was able to walk to the bathroom and even be upright long enough to shower. She was in good spirits. Her husband Kevin stayed with her at the hospital most of the time.

We’d been planning on visiting the hospitals with the Canadians, but not thinking we’d be visiting one of our own (Charlotte)! Charlotte was the one who’d actually asked me the day before the accident to take her to the hospital to hand out dolls that Kevin’s 90-year old grandma and her friends in Canada had knitted and sent along for children at the hospitals. When we visited Charlotte at the private hospital, we left some with Kevin to hand out in the children’s ward there. Then Jesse, Jake, Katie, Jenn and I drove to the government hospital and met up with one of the YFC volunteers who visited the hospital with me recently. Then we handed out the dolls in the children’s ward there and prayed for the kids.



Adventures with Canadians—close encounter with Mama Rhino!

Three days after the rollover, we escorted the Canadian team to a church in Mochudi, which included walking through the bush on trails and crossing over the raging Notwane river (please note my sarcasm…it’s probably only 10-15 feet wide and 2-3 feet deep) on a fallen tree. So that’s always an adventure!


On Thursday last week, the whole team stopped by to visit Charlotte again just before she was taken on a medical flight back to Canada (she arrived safely and is continuing her recovery there—latest news is that she might go home from the hospital tomorrow!). We then drove the team to a nature preserve for a surprise game drive (aka safari). The most exciting part was seeing 3 rhinos, including a month old baby rhino with a little stump for his horn. So cute!




Mama Rhino was not so keen to see us, however, and started to charge at us. She stopped a split second later, but it was enough to stun us and send everyone on the side closest to her sliding over in an attempt to prevent possibly being impaled by her massive rhino horn! It’s not one of my dreams to become an Em-kabob.


On a more peaceful note, we also saw a few giraffes at sunset.

The following day, I took some of the Canadian girls to visit and pray for patients in the Mochudi hospital. It was super cute when one little girl sat up, bowed her head, and clasped her hands in the “praying hands” position as we prayed over her. Saturday morning we held the second interdenominational Youth leader forum at YFC. We are trying to facilitate the youth leaders working together to plan events and discuss ways to help the youth on various issues. We are planning another fundraiser concert and fashion show (modest of course!) to support the poor in Mochudi.

Right after that meeting, we drove the Canadians to the airport to fly back home. All except Charlotte’s 15-year old son Jesse. He is sticking around for another month to help out. Katie, Jenn, and I are excited to have a little brother around for a month. We are currently educating him on how to feed himself. He cooked his dinner last night successfully, for the most part :).


It’s a change only having four of us in the staff house instead of 20 for the two weeks the team visited. The team was primarily teenagers, so it was understandably a crazy time in our house! But we enjoyed it. I led worship with them a few times and had opportunity to share my testimony with them one night. For those who are familiar with it, I shared the July 10th story—perhaps I’ll share it on here again sometime soon. But in a nutshell, that was the date when I first had an overwhelming sense I’m supposed to be a missionary…and then things kept coming up on that date in various years that confirmed that I’m supposed to be a missionary in Botswana.

Sharing the July 10 Testimony in a village church…on July 10!

This year, I was invited on July 10 to go to a small village called Mantswabisi, where my church partnered with a missions organization called Reaching the Unreached to plant a church there a few months ago. It worked out that I was able to speak in the church service on July 10 about my July 10 testimony! It was a cool moment when the translator finally realized that the date that day was July 10! So July 10 is now also the first time I’ve spoken during a church service in Botswana. We were supposed to meet the chief of the village that day, so we visited his home, but unfortunately he wasn’t feeling well so we didn’t get to meet him yet. The village was composed of a lot of traditional huts called rondavels, which are less prevalent in Mochudi and definitely rare (if not, nonexistent) in Gaborone.


Youth Outreach in Tlokweng

The following three days, July 11-13, I led an outreach day-camp with the Canadians in Tlokweng, the village right next to Gaborone. It went well. The first day we had around 30 kids, but by the last day there were 60+! Since it was a 3-day camp, we based it around 1 Cor. 13:13—“These three things last forever—faith, hope, and love…” The theme was “Treasure Forever: 3 Things Last Forever,” and each day was focused around one of the three as a means of explaining the gospel message. I really appreciated the help the Canadians offered with games, bible trivia, memory verses, leading worship, sharing testimonies, etc. That enabled me to focus on leading worship and the message each day (supplemented with video clips). Let’s pray that the message will take deep root in the hearts of the youth.


Other tidbits

The previous week, before the Canadians arrived, we’d led holiday programs in Mochudi. I helped out with the Kids Club by leading worship songs with the kids. Every evening, we had the YaRona FC drop-in centre, so I helped out with that a few evenings, sharing the message once. This past Saturday, I also spoke and shared the testimony from our recent rollover.

In more serious matters, a young person that I’ve not mentioned before recently attempted suicide, but thankfully failed. She is doing much better now, and I’m assisting in getting her professional counseling. Prayers for her are certainly welcome. Another girl I know from Scripture Union club in Gaborone let me know last week that her father died after his battle with cancer. The burial was Saturday. Since I lost my dad, I guess this is now a circumstance where I can offer empathy to a deeper degree, in accordance with 2 Cor. 1:3-4—

“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”

When I’ve talked to her on the phone and texted with her, she has seemed to be holding tightly onto her heavenly Father through this. I was amazed and inspired to just now receive this text message from her. May these words from the lips of a 15-year-old who just lost her father also inspire you:

“God is so great and loving. He is “I Am that I Am” and never changes. No matter the challenges you’re facing, He still loves you, and remember He can never give you a challenge that you can’t handle. You have the potential and don’t quit. There is a reward ahead of that mountain, and it’s so difficult as you go up, but keep pushing and you shall make it. Love you.”

Wow… God is indeed so great and loving.

Another Outreach!

Oh—another prayer request. We at YFC are going on another outreach this week to a tiny village called Dikwididi. The Batswana YFC staff left yesterday with John, the Mochudi policeman who went with us to Olifants Drift in April. Since I had ministry in Gaborone yesterday, Jesse and I will drive out this afternoon in my car and stay the night and return with the whole team on tomorrow evening. We welcome prayers for our safety and for effective ministry there. It is only about 30 km from here, and I’ve driven through there once. And yes, we will return to Olifants Drift sometime. We’d already been planning this outreach to Dikwididi though.
Thanks for your prayers, encouragement, and interest.

Love,
Em

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Walked Away from a Rollover Accident

Hi all,

Well... I survived another rollover accident Thursday--I'm fine, no one was critically injured. God's hand was extremely evident in protecting/rescuing us. Ten of us were driving in a YFC vehicle (Toyota Venture) in the middle of a 3-vehicle convoy driving a YFC Canadian team up to the remote village of Olifants Drift to do an outreach. I was a front passenger in the Venture. As we were coming into a turn on the dirt/sandy road, our left rear tire blew, sending the Venture out of control...drifting/sliding back and forth (imagine being on ice and trying to regain control). The rim of the blown tire dug into the dirt causing the Venture to flip in the air, land once on its roof, and land upright on its wheels (so one roll). The worst injury sustained was one of the leaders from Canada, Charlotte, who fractured a vertebra in her middle-lower back. Of course, I was concerned how my previously-broken neck would do as we rolled, but amazingly, though most everyone else hit their heads hard, I did not hit my head at all! My head/neck did not hit anything and I was able to walk out of the Venture by myself. Truly there does not seem to be a good explanation for this apart from the hand of God.

The windshield and back window blew out, as did the window right next to me. But I have no cuts or lacerations. I believe only Potlako (next to me in the front center) had a cut, and it was minor. None of our extremities were crushed. The four in the very back did not have seatbelts on (there are none back there), yet none of us or our extremities left the vehicle. My ipod was found on the road outside, the force of the roll ripping the earbuds out of my ears.

I can even remember that my glasses flew off my face during the roll, but I actually caught them in mid-air at armslength away! Right away once we'd landed upright (which is also amazing..and allowed everyone to evacuate much more easily and safely), I was able to ask if everyone was ok, and let myself out of the car. Also, although there is not a roll bar or roll cage on the Venture, the roof did not crush in much at all when we landed on the roof. Some of the guys who know more about vehicles said that is miraculous that it didn't collapse on impact more than it did.

The accident occurred in seemingly one of the worst places possible. We were in the middle of nowhere...literally--no villages, no houses, no side roads, no cell phone reception for at least another 30 minutes. There was no way to call for help, and even if we could, it would take half an hour to reach us. In the entire time we'd been driving on the deserted dirt road (about 30 minutes I believe), we had only seen one other car on the road. But the next beautiful display of God's hand was that within 5 minutes of the rollover, two police vehicles "happened" to be driving by! So they were able to transport the worst victims to Mochudi for help and get the investigation process underway. The cause was definitely determined to be the blown tire, so there are no charges for our driver. She was commended for staying as calm as she did. The police investigators feel that there was potential for fatalities.

I stayed at the roadside with the rest of the team, along with 3 others from the Venture who were ok. We camped out under some trees for about 6 hours while the police came to investigate and we brought other another vehicle to transport us home. During that time I shared my testimony from my first rollover accident in Colorado, we just hung out, some skipped rope and played ultimate frisbee, and the time actually flew by. Amazingly, after changing the blown tire with the spare, the Venture was actually still drivable! The front and back windshields had blown out, but one of the guys drove it back to Mochudi carefully, with the other two cars behind. It was quite the sight to see them driving with no windshield but with the windshield wipers on to ward off any potential birds! The Venture is totaled though in the sense that the body/doors/windows are so bent up that it's not worth the cost of fixing it.

I just have a few bruises and some soreness. My neck feels fine, just a bit tighter and sore, but my rotation ability is still there and no major pain at all. In fact, I've only taken 4 Advil tablets since the rollover (none yesterday or today)! Everyone in the Venture was home and fine (just sore) the same day, except Charlotte from the Canada team (the leader Kevin's wife). She is still in the hospital today, but I just talked to Kevin and he told me she was walking to the bathroom today and they took the IV out. They think she will be able to be med evacuated to Canada next week to get optimal care there. Charlotte is here with the whole family--husband Kevin and teenage sons Jesse and Jake, so it's good that they've been able to be together at this time. Please pray for her, and for the family.

We had good fellowship Thursday night, helping us process and release our emotions...had a long time of worship together (I just learned it was about 3 hours!). I think we all have realized how it could have been so much worse, and that God's hand was all over us. Some fitting ones I led were "You Never Let Go," "Trading My Sorrows -- "I am pressed, but not crushed; persecuted, not abandoned; struck down but not destroyed..." and "Our God" -- Into the darkness You shine, Out of the ashes we rise...Our God is greater, Our God is stronger, God You are Higher than any other; Our God is Healer, Awesome in Power, Our God, Our God...And if our God is for us, than who could ever stop us, and if our God is with us, than what could stand against?! Our God is greater...".

Also, I'll share my journal entry prayer the night before the accident. I ended my prayer with this: "Held. Embraced. Secure. Safe." So "Safe" was the last word written in my journal before the rollover in which His hand kept us safe.

Then my daily devotional the day of the accident, which I read after the accident, started this way:

Our Lord, we thank Thee that Thou has kept us.

Rejoice indeed that you see My Hand in all the happenings and the keepings of the day. Protected, the Israelites crossed the Red Sea; so are you protected in all things. Rely on this and go forward...Go forward unafraid."

And as I was flipping to that entry, I saw the one from Monday (11 July), entitled "Guardian Angels":

"You are Mine.Once I have set on you My stamp and seal of ownership, all My hosts throng to serve and protect you. Remember that you are children of a King. Try to picture a bodyguard of My servitors in the Unseen, waiting, longing, efficient to do all that is necessary for your well-being."

Yesterday, I went with two other passengers to get officially checked out at the private hospital in Gaborone just to be sure everything is fine. I had X-rays of my neck, jaw, shoulder, chest, lower back...everything is fine. Praise God. My neck, of course the biggest concern, is stable and the vertebrae are in proper position (remember the big concern after the accident was the tendons/ligaments between the top two vertebrae). My daily bible reading plan yesterday included this verse: God: “The sinews of your neck were iron.”-Isaiah 48:4 (in context it's not a compliment, but in my case, it's definitely a positive truth, glory be to God!). Amen!

The radiologist/doctor thought I might have a screw loose in my neck (on the titanium plate connecting C2 and C3), but upon closer examination, it seems secure (they think it was just an overexposure on that one X-ray). So...it's only once that I've been medically diagnosed to have a screw loose (on my halo 3.5 years ago)...apparently now I don't...at least physically :). The others are fine too. I just came back in from playing a short soccer match after the tournament we hosted in Mochudi with the Canadians.

The outreach on Saturday and the youth outreach day-camp Mon-Wednesday went well...but I can share about that another time...kinda got eclipsed by Thursday's events. Thanks so much for all the prayers during those days and on Thursday. Wednesday my daily bible plan had included Joshua 3:5 -- "Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do wonders among you." I had of course, been thinking in terms of wonders in Olifants Drift village during the outreach the next day. Instead, we saw the Lord do wonders on the dusty road there.

Thanks for your prayers. God is good!!!

Blessings from Botswana,

Em

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Some sadness...but God still brings Beauty from Ashes

Hey all,
Just realized it’s been awhile since my last post. Sadly, my beloved dog Chester passed away this week at the old age of 14.5 (102 in dog years)…so that was another sad phone call to receive. My mom feels his absence most keenly because he was living with her in Michigan, though it’s hard for me too since he was such a faithful friend all these years (since I was 13).

More Beauty from the Ashes

So June is a tougher month now because of the anniversary of my dad’s death, Father’s Day, and now Chester’s death. I wrote a new song for guitar/vocals two days after Father’s Day called “Beauty from Ashes,” and it’s actually the first song I’ve written since my accident. So it’s borne out of that and my dad’s death:

“Beauty from Ashes”

Verse 1:
This life can have its pain, its trials, and its heartache
But You never said You’d keep us from all heartbreak
Yet what You promised is that nothing could ever separate us,
That we’ll look back and see how You beautifully re-made us

Chorus:
You bring beauty from ashes
You trade joy for mourning
You bring beauty from ashes
My King, My Love

Verse 2:
When tragedy, and grief, and trials enfold us
You are still in control and tenderly You hold us
You work all things together for the good of those who love You
And You’ll be glorified my King, proven faithful and true

Chorus:
You bring beauty from ashes
You trade joy for mourning
You bring beauty from ashes
My King, My Love

Bridge:
You are so good, You are so kind
You heal my heart, You blow my mind
You are so faithful in my life
Jesus

You are beautiful
So beautiful
You are beautiful
My King, My Love

Jesus, You are so faithful in my life
Jesus, You are so faithful in my life

About a week later (last Monday), I got to see God bring even more beauty from the ashes. One of the YFC volunteers in Gaborone asked if I’d come with her to the hospital in Gaborone to visit a family friend, a young pastor who’d survived a fatal car accident where 3 people died. His main injuries were related to his neck and jaw. Sound familiar? So I brought along my laptop and showed him the slideshow that depicts the testimony of how God has brought beauty from the ashes of my accident, triumph out of tragedy. I encouraged him that God can bring him through this valley back to the mountaintops, and that God is faithful and good in the midst of such tragedies. The other visitors encouraged me to lead a prayer for him, so I prayed for his healing—physical and emotional. Due to his neck brace and jaw it was difficult for him to speak, but he reached out his hand to shake mine afterward. The next day, when I stopped in to visit him, he looked much better and was able to talk a bit with me and thank me again.

Hospital Ministry in Gaborone

When the volunteer had asked if I’d go to the hospital with her, I was hoping that we could visit other patients afterward. It’s been on my heart to visit patients at that hospital, but I didn’t know the procedure. Before I had a chance to ask her, she asked me if we could visit other patients! She said that the Lord had really been calling her to visit patients there, and she was hoping that our visit that day could be the start of a regular hospital ministry. That, of course, resonated in my heart, as I’d been hoping the same exact thing! So after we visited her pastor friend, we visited and prayed for several other patients. In the process, we ran into the college student I’ve been mentoring! She too was there to visit and pray for patients! I found out the next day that she has been going to minister at the hospital almost every day since 2008! So it looks like we already have a core of committed hospital ministers, and we can invite other volunteers to join us!

Hospital Ministry in Mochudi

I typed the following up awhile back about our hospital ministry on Fridays in Mochudi, but left it out because the entry was already quite long, so I’ll include it now:

The day in May we shared the Gift of Time lesson at the school assembly [that God gives us all the gift of time and we have to choose how to fill our time], we were praying for and talking to a teen girl patient who wanted a nurse to assist her. We went to get one, but they said they were busy attending to a corpse. Someone in the next room had just died. It just struck me regarding the time teaching we gave earlier that day…that woman’s time was up. We only get so much time on earth. How are we using it? Meanwhile, while that girl could not be attended by a nurse I sang over her a lullaby, the lyrics of which are from the perspective of God singing to you. Any of my youth group kids from the US would recognize it as the song I’ve sung to them at camps and overnights just before bed. It’s “I am” by Jill Phillips. Here are the lyrics:

Oh gently lay your head
Upon My chest
And I will comfort you
Like a mother while you rest
The tide can change so fast,
But I will stay
The same through the past,
The same in future, same today

CHORUS:
I am constant; I am near
I am peace that shatters all your secret fears
I am holy; I am wise
I'm the only one who knows your heart's desires
Your heart's desires

Oh weary, tired and worn,
Let out your sighs
And drop that heavy load you hold
‘Cause Mine is light
I know you through and through;
There's no need to hide
I want to show you love
That is deep and high and wide

CHORUS(2x)

Oh gently lay your head
Upon My chest
And I will comfort you
Like a mother while you rest

The patient closed her eyes and rested as I sang. I think it calmed her down. I often sing that song over patients in the hospital and am so grateful for the chance to help them sense God’s love and care for them. Another particularly memorable moment at the hospital was when we went up to an old lady lying in her bed. She didn’t understand or speak English very much, so in my halting Setswana I tried to find out what was wrong and ask if we could pray for her. After we prayed, she reached for my hand, pulled it gently closer and bent her head down to kiss my hand. She communicated love and appreciation through that and her eyes/smile better than words could have done. She then signaled for Jennifer to come closer so she could do the same for her. By the time we left her bedside, she had kissed each of our hands three times.

Other News

There’s a lot going on with mentoring, clubs, etc., but here are some main things: This week I’m meeting again with the leadership of the Face the Nation program to determine how they might partner with us in the mentoring program I’m developing. Prayers for wisdom and God’s will in all this is much appreciated. We are running holiday programs the next couple weeks in Mochudi and a village next to Gaborone, so prayers for that are also welcome. A visiting team from Cape Town just left this morning, and a week from today, 20+ Canadians will arrive to minister with us, and all somehow fit into our staff house for two weeks! Two of the regular staff/volunteers, Corine and Franzi, just flew back to Europe after their times of service here (sad for us!!), so we only have 3 of us living in the house now…until the Canadians arrive!

Michelle Obama Visited Mochudi!

Oh, and in other random news, U.S. First Lady Michelle Obama made an unscheduled stop at the restaurant just 300 meters from our house in Mochudi last week! We didn’t know she was coming to Mochudi, but as I drove to Gaborone that morning and saw all the police and tanks along the highway from Gaborone to Mochudi, I wondered what was going on. I knew that Michelle Obama was in Gaborone, and so I assumed she was going to visit Mochudi?! So I called my housemates to let them know, and sure enough, she not only drove by, but stopped to get food right across the street from where they were standing to see her drive by, less than a quarter mile from our house! You can watch a Reuters news report on it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qr9Uu4w2Ag. She drove back through the next day on her way back to the airport.

Take care, and I appreciate your care and prayers.
Blessings,
Em